Cindy should not be desperate for a husband

Cindy is a 38-year-old single lady who is worried that at her age, no man has found her worthy of marriage. All they want is her money and body after which they dump her.

She has all it takes to make a good wife for a man but it seems no one wants her and this has continued to be a source of worry for her.

Read her story here:

"My name is Cindy, a 38-year-old single woman desperately in need of love. I run my own business and I must say that by the grace of God, my business is doing very well.

I travel out of the country at least five times every year to get stock for my boutiques in Abuja, Lagos, and Port Harcourt. I am ugly though I can't say I am a beauty queen but I know I am good enough for any man.

But I have been unlucky in love all my life. Every man I meet has always been after my body, money and what else I can offer and after sucking me dry, they will run off, leaving me heartbroken.

I may look very happy on the outside and I keep a smile whenever I interact with people but I can tell you that I have this secret pain inside of me and most nights, I cry myself to sleep instead of being in the arms of my husband.

I can't count the men who have come into my life with promises of staying by my side through thick and thin but once they get what they want, they will dump me like a bad sore.

Some of my friends have said I play into the hands of the men easily because once I fall in love, I do everything to make my man happy and comfortable. I would not mind giving him money to start off a business, pay his house rent or even help with his siblings' school fees.

I don't see this as a fault of mine because I have a generous heart and I can give out my last Kobo if I see anyone in need and when the person is someone I am in love with, I do everything possible to make him happy.

But I always come out the worse for it because they always end up hurting and disgracing me. I have prayed, fasted, gone for deliverance to wash off any bad luck on my head but it seems none is working.

I am getting old and I really want to settle down but no man is willing to go the whole hog with me. I don't even mind sponsoring my wedding if I meet the right man.

Cindy."

The teaser for the day was:

What do you think of Cindy's situation?

How Nigeria voted:

Cindy should not be desperate as a good man will come her way soon - 37%

Cindy should take her problems to God in prayers - 23%

Cindy should wait for the right time as she is not too old to get married - 14%

Cindy should not let the men know she is rich - 26%

How would you vote here?