My boyfriend is 42, a fool at forty; do I leave or hope he changes?

Our relationship is about seven months old now and I feel tired already.

Dear Pascal,

 I hope you are good and kudos on the job you are doing. Please I am in a state of confusion and I really need your candid advice or opinion on this.

I will be 33 by January 2018 and I have a relationship that I am not enjoying or happy about at all. All my efforts to make it seem or look like what I dream of has proven abortive.

My man is 42 and a single father of a 21 year old girl. Our relationship is about seven months old now and I seem to be tired of it already.

I visit him mostly on Sundays because I am always very busy during the weekdays and when going to his place I stop by at the market to get some stuffs that we can eat.

What I’ve noticed is that under no circumstance has my boyfriend ever given me money whether for my transportation or for the stuffs and he is working although his job does not pay much.

Secondly, I think he is self-centered. I noticed that most times when watching the television he will always want us to watch what he feels like watching.

Thirdly, sexually he is a very active person and I am not although I told him I will brace up with time but I noticed he does not like us having sex again because he feels I always dull his mood.

Lastly, I had a surgery and I was in the hospital for 10 days and he could not even come see me for once at the hospital let alone contributing to my bills.

Now I have been at home for three weeks and he only came visiting once with not even a cube of sugar. Please is this man worth dating or marrying?
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