The niceness ends now for these persons

I totally admire the nice girl because it isn’t easy. I try to be one every time until I realized it was too much and it needed to stop for my own peace of mind. When you give out a lot to people who are not deserving of it, it takes more out of you till you have nothing left to give. 

Stop being nice to the following persons for your own peace of mind and happiness;

A person who tries to bring you down 

Being nice to this person will always put you in a situation where you have to listen to them yap about how you may never succeed and blah blah. 

A super competitive friend

This person literally drains all your energy away and leaves you exhausted. Any conversation made with this person sends a trigger to the person to surpass your achievements. 

An absentee friend

I am referring to the friend that does not genuinely make an effort to check up on you except you reach out to them first. They are not worth your time.

Stop being a people-pleaser to the detriment of your own happiness. It is not bad sometimes to say NO to something (or people) who affect your choice to be happy.