HOW TO CHANGE A PERSON
As an agent of change and light in your family and relationships; to make it the best you ever desired. I am certain that the light in this message will so much flood your heart as you heed to the laid down steps on how to change a person.
These principles are reliable and can be applied to any person; wife, children, mother, colleague in the office even a heady fellow in your street. Be attentive as i unveil these principles of changing people around you.
- REMOVE CONDEMNATION
- Remove stigma of condemnation on him
- Make him feel relaxed with you
- Speak kind words to him
- Tell him that he is not evil
- Make him your friend
- Allow him to trust in you; he will reveal secrets to you
- Relinquish the fire of evil in him
- Be real to yourself and trust in your influence
- Tell him why he should change
- You must do it with meekness
- Call him after the change you desired
- Speak positive words to him
- Don't be discouraged on his failure
- Help him realize his mistakes
- Encourage him to keep on
- Nagging must be far from you
- Be patient with him even when he is rude to you
- Follow him like you would follow a child
- Human beings are free moral agents
- Let him practice what you have taught him
- Don't be harsh on him when he fails
- Allow him to change willingly
- Assure yourself that he is changing
- Keep speaking positive words to him
- See him as a saint not as a sinner
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