LEAVING AND CLEAVING IN MARRIAGE
God who instituted marriage made it that a man should leave his father, mother, relations and shall cleave to his wife and they shall be one flesh. But in most cases, the reverse is the order in the society. The light in this article will be opening your eyes on the truth about leaving and cleaving in marriage.
LEAVE YOUR RELATIONS
How does it sound to you? Is he serious? Yes i am. Practically when you are married, you should not stay in the same house with your wife and parents. Look for an apartment elsewhere even if it is one room. You will enjoy the marriage between two of you than staying with your parents in the same house. I sound controversial to what you've known right?
IMPLICATIONS
Your siblings no matter how they like your wife will always refer to her as the woman they married. Therefore, she ought to be about the duties in the home; thereby turning her into a maid. Your parents also will always see loopholes in her and complain of insubordination. by this you will have not time to have heart to heart relationship with your wife.
Leaving and cleaving helps you to build intimacy with your wife. Don't put her in bondage in your father's house.
SEEK NO ADVICE FROM THEM
Parents always like their sons and would want to know things about their new family. Don't allow yourself to be tossed about by them in the quest to know what is happening. Always present a good picture of your partner to them.
Any advice not from the scripture is null and void. Abstain from it. It is dangerous than cancer.
CONSIDER
A product is effective in the hand of the user only if he pays attention to the written instructions of the producer.
For instance, to operate phone efficiently, you must resort to the manual that came therewith. In that case, the bible is the manual for man which contains issues of marriage. Seek advice therein. There, is life for your family.
KEEP YOUR PARTNER'S SECRET
On no occasion should you carry matters in your family to your parents and siblings. Sort it out yourselves. Be your partner's confidant. Seek solutions together concerning any matter. Respect your partner's opinion. No matter how you think your partner is misbehaving, don't take it outside the marriage. The grace is upon you to resolve it.
BUILD WITH YOUR PARTNER
Support your partner and you two should develop together. If your partner is weak in some areas, help him/her to overcome them. Don't be a critic. Be a reliable and formidable agent of development to your partner. Make your partner always indebted to you for contributing immensely for his/her rise in character and social status.
NO CONDEMNATION
You should not use your partner's faults to accuse him/her nor for coarse jokes. It can be ridiculous. Instead, give your partner a helping hand to come out of that miry clay. Those who raise eyebrow over a slight issue in marriage cannot make it a place to dwell. So, be ever ready to correct than to condemn.
LEAVE YOUR RELATIONS
How does it sound to you? Is he serious? Yes i am. Practically when you are married, you should not stay in the same house with your wife and parents. Look for an apartment elsewhere even if it is one room. You will enjoy the marriage between two of you than staying with your parents in the same house. I sound controversial to what you've known right?
IMPLICATIONS
Your siblings no matter how they like your wife will always refer to her as the woman they married. Therefore, she ought to be about the duties in the home; thereby turning her into a maid. Your parents also will always see loopholes in her and complain of insubordination. by this you will have not time to have heart to heart relationship with your wife.
Leaving and cleaving helps you to build intimacy with your wife. Don't put her in bondage in your father's house.
SEEK NO ADVICE FROM THEM
Parents always like their sons and would want to know things about their new family. Don't allow yourself to be tossed about by them in the quest to know what is happening. Always present a good picture of your partner to them.
Any advice not from the scripture is null and void. Abstain from it. It is dangerous than cancer.
CONSIDER
A product is effective in the hand of the user only if he pays attention to the written instructions of the producer.
For instance, to operate phone efficiently, you must resort to the manual that came therewith. In that case, the bible is the manual for man which contains issues of marriage. Seek advice therein. There, is life for your family.
KEEP YOUR PARTNER'S SECRET
On no occasion should you carry matters in your family to your parents and siblings. Sort it out yourselves. Be your partner's confidant. Seek solutions together concerning any matter. Respect your partner's opinion. No matter how you think your partner is misbehaving, don't take it outside the marriage. The grace is upon you to resolve it.
BUILD WITH YOUR PARTNER
Support your partner and you two should develop together. If your partner is weak in some areas, help him/her to overcome them. Don't be a critic. Be a reliable and formidable agent of development to your partner. Make your partner always indebted to you for contributing immensely for his/her rise in character and social status.
NO CONDEMNATION
You should not use your partner's faults to accuse him/her nor for coarse jokes. It can be ridiculous. Instead, give your partner a helping hand to come out of that miry clay. Those who raise eyebrow over a slight issue in marriage cannot make it a place to dwell. So, be ever ready to correct than to condemn.
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