LOVE EXPRESSION

Human beings are specially fashioned in the nature of love. Love is the nature of everyone who proceeds from the living God. Love is a virtue which must be expressed. You can express love to you partner through:

1. GIVING- if you love your partner, you must be ready to share what you have with your partner. Below are the things you can share

• Time-use your time to server your partner. Don't ignore each other's request. Avoid staying outside late when your family is at home.
• Treasure-your treasure can be money, necklace, wrist watches,clothes etc. Use them to serve your partner. Don't scare him/her away from them. Let them be a communal possession.
• Talent-talent is God's giving gift. use it to serve your partner. Whatever you know how to teach your partner also. See your partner as part of you which must benefit from your talent. These ingredients must not be exempted if you clamour for a glorious family

     

     2. ADVANCE FORGIVENESS-You must create avenue to forgive each other's offenses. Don't carry grudges against your partner. Forgiveness show strength not weakness. Forgiveness is the strength of an authentic person but chronic anger and hostility are weakness. It is more dangerous than cancer. No person has ever beaten himself or be angry with himself for a long time because he failed on something. So, if your partner is you, why holding unforgiving heart against him. Repent now!
    
 3. INGREDIENTS OF LOVE EXPRESSION- Love is patient, kind, not jealous, not rude, not boastful, not irritable. It keeps no record of wrongs etc

    4. SEE YOUR PARTNER WITH THE MIND OF CHRIST THAT IS IN YOU-You must not abuse your partner. Eulogize your partner always. Don't call your partner a witch nor a devil lest he/she behaves like that to you. Call your partner with a name which portrays what you want in him/her