QUESTIONS ABOUT MARRIAGE

 WHAT IS MARRIAGE?

According to the advanced learner's dictionary, Marriage is the relationship between a man and wife. It's also an act of marrying someone.
The bible asserted that, marriage is the act of a man leaving his father, mother and siblings and cleave to his wife and they become one flesh(body).
Marriage is an institution ordained by the supreme God to substantiate the process of procreation and multiplication in this material world(earth).

WHO SHOULD MARRY?
Marriage is between a man and a woman not a boy and a girl. A boy grows into a man when he has developed his psychological physique to handle unending rolling down of responsibilities in marriage. Maturity is not in the muscles of the body but muscles of the mind.

WHEN SHOULD A MAN MARRY? 
The appropriate age in a man is thirty(30) years. This is the time a son starting the second generation of his father. Although, people get married before and after thirty years: this is owed to individual level of growth in their mind(mindset).
SEE: Powerful tips to maintain a healthy relationship

WHAT IS THE REASON FOR MARRIAGE?
God said, it is not good for a man to be alone. I will make him a helper/companion/associate just right and suitable for him. (Gen 2:18) 
Marriage is principally instituted for companionship. Staying together and helping each other. It is impossible for one to be warmth alone. (Eccl 4:11) 
One shall chase a thousand but two shall put ten thousand to flight. In their pursuit, they will always have great result.
Procreation/child bearing is God's blessing/reward for marriage not the reason for marriage. (Psalm 127:3) Therefore, everyone(parties involved) in the marriage should submit his or her pride for excellent co-existence. (Eph 5:21)
SEE:20 Steps to be a good wife

SHOULD A MAN LOVE THE CHILDREN MORE THAN THE WIFE?
It is an absurd to down turn the laid down principles of God and follow the teachings of men. No man with right senses should love the children more than the wife. Love should flow from your wife down to your children, Not on the contrary. When you love your wife, she will give you a peaceful home that you deserve.
SEE: Steps to be a good husband

SHOULD THERE BE PREFERENCE AMONG THE CHILDREN?
Children that come into your family came from God and have complementary abilities to spice up the beauty and healthy living of your family. So, they should be treated equally.
SEE: Equality Amongst Children


WHO SHOULD BE YOUR ADVISER IN MARRIAGE?
Every product rely on its producer for effective functionality. Every product has a guiding manual from the producer to enhance the utilization of it. No man or woman has an apt or technical answers to issues in your marriage except the bible(manual). Therefore, every couple should resort to it to fetch efficient means of handling matters in marriage. Don't bank on your parents, pastors, peer mentor etc because they have  their own shortcomings. The bible said that anyone with beam in his or her eyes cannot see well to remove speck in his or her neighbour's eyes (Matt 7:4-5).