UNSUITABLE HELP

 


Unsuitable help is one who uses the partner's error to accuse him or her. The king called his wife to present  her before his guests who gathered with him but she ignored a royal call. Then the king was not pleased and he went for a virgin in the land and replaced her. The queen was an unsuitable help to the king.

Zeresh was also an unsuitable help to her husband. The husband had issue with somebody and confided in her wife but her response to him devastated him. She said to her husband, if u truly had issue with that person it means you are gone. She crucified her husband with her mouth. Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth. (Eph 4:29)
God has given you the tongue of the learned to know what to say per time. (Isa 50:4)
Be the master of your words in every discussion. Do not bring up other issues to breach the present subject matter.

King David went in anger to destroy the house of Nabal. When Abigail learn' t of it, she made quick and met David on the way and pleaded for mercy. Nabal her husband was a drunkard and foolish. With his hands, he wanted to brings destruction upon his household but Abigail being a suitable help defended her home. (1sam 25)

Husbands should dwell with their wife according to understanding. This will help your prayers not to be hindered (1peter 3:7)