How to court a lady

Being a boyfriend does not just involve asking a girl out. You are meant to seduce her, appreciate her and woo her countless times. Ladies, am I right or not?

Many ladies complain about their men. Yes, they are good men but they don’t really know how to treat their women and this can get the women quite frustrated. Thus, if you are looking for how to improve your wooing skills and make that special gal feel truly special, here’s what to do:

1. Make her laugh

Your babe wants to come back into your arms and know she can relax. You should not be as wound up as a 9-5 job, she already has that. Have a good sense of humor and know what she finds amusing and share them with her. It might be tickles, cat videos or watching comedy.

2. Try to impress her all the time

Yeah, so you have got her as your girlfriend now but that does not mean you should stop going out of your way to impress her. She is an important person in your life. Watch what you wear, don’t take her to shabby places in the hope that she will always ‘understand’.

3. Be interested in what she has to say

It might be the most ridiculous thing, but listen to her as if the world’s fate depends on what she is saying. Give her your whole attention. Then respond insightfully to what she has said.

4. Compliment her

This is basic stuff. Tell her she is beautiful; compliment new dresses, shoes, hairdos etc. Don’t act like this is too much. Even you like compliments. Be sincere though, don’t just reel them out because you are expected to.

5. Be spontaneous

Nothing is more exciting than a spontaneous boyfriend. It will give her something to look forward to your relationship. Do sweet, little things that she doesn’t expect.